In Home or Out of Home Childcare?

In-home Versus Out-of-home Childcare

 
This is often the first major childcare decision to make and once that is made the following decisions often fall into place with more ease. 
 
 

Out-of-Home Childcare Includes:

    • Day nurseries, work nurseries / crèches.
    • Nursery schools and pre-schools.
    • Childminders.
    • Out-of-school clubs and care.  

In-Home Childcare Includes:

    • Relatives and friends.
    • Nannies, maternity and night nurses.
    • Au pairs and mother's helps.
 
 
Some pros and cons of Out of Home and In Home childcare are outlined in the tables below. They are extracted from the book How to Find the Childcare Your Child will Love which is available from Amazon.co.uk.
 

Out-of-Home Childcare Pros and Cons:

 
 
Out of Home Pros
 
 
Out of Home Cons
 
 X
Peace of mind that the childcare setting is Ofsted regulated and regularly inspected
 
If your child is ill you will have to stay at home or find alternative cover
 
Your child will start their education in line with the Early Years Curriculum
 
You are likely to still be charged if your child is ill or away on holiday
 
Almost 100% reliability, they are guaranteed to be open on the days they say they will. Many will open all year round
 
Your child may pick up more colds and bugs, meaning you have to take more time off work
 
Your child will be surrounded by children of the same age and can form some very strong friendships
 
You are constrained by drop off and pick up times, often with little flexibility
 
This can be the most affordable type of childcare
 
It can be stressful and worrying leaving a baby in a nursery setting or with a childminder at first
 
You can often get financial assistance from the Government or your employer
 
There are negative stories in the press about the effects of childcare, particularly nurseries, on children
 
Your child will be eligible for 5 free early years funded sessions per week from the age of 3
 
It can take time for a child to settle in. This can be a stressful time for both of you
 
They will be equipped with lots of new toys and activities which your child will love
 
You have less control over their routine, diet and discipline
 
Children will be better prepared for school in terms of socializing, learning and a more formal routine
 
Staff turnover can be high which may be unsettling for your child
 
Your home is your own!
 
Staff can be young and inexperienced 
 
 
 
 In-Home Childcare Pros and Cons:
 
“You have such trepidation about someone living in your home, about how it will affect the family, but such desperation because you need the help.”
 
 
In-Home Pros
 
 
In-home Cons
 
 x
Help comes to you or lives-in, ensuring greater flexibility in handover time and hours of cover
 
If your childcare can’t make it to work, you are left in the lurch. Alternative arrangements will have to be made, often at short notice
 
You are not constrained by nursery or child minder working hours
 
You have someone in your home all day (or 24 hours a day) so lose your privacy
 
Children remain in their own environment and in their own routine
 
It can take more time and effort to find someone you are happy to share your home with
 
If agreed upfront, they can help with other duties, e.g. shopping, housework
 
You have to manage in home childcare and ensure they are happy and fulfilled in their job
 
Your childcarer can provide over- night cover
 
It is your responsibility as an employer to ensure all taxes & National Insurance are paid
 
Children can attend classes and activities selected by you, whether you are there to take them or not
 
Your children may have less opportunity to socialize with other children
 
If you work from home you can see your children during the day
 
You don’t know what is going on when you are not there
 
Your children will have one-to-one attention with the same care giver over time
 
If you decide to provide a car with the job there will be the expense of the car, insurance and fuel
 
You have greater control over discipline, values and the food your children are given
 
If someone is live-in you will forfeit an extra bedroom / or flat and subject your home to additional wear and tear
 
Your children are less likely to pick up as many illnesses
 
If you have only one child it can be an expensive form of childcare
 
You can build up a strong and fulfilling working relationship
 
If things go wrong with the working relationship it can be very stressful for all concerned