In Home or Out of Home Childcare?
In-home Versus Out-of-home Childcare
This is often the first major childcare decision to make and once that is made the following decisions often fall into place with more ease.
Out-of-Home Childcare Includes:
- Day nurseries, work nurseries / crèches.
- Nursery schools and pre-schools.
- Childminders.
- Out-of-school clubs and care.
In-Home Childcare Includes:
- Relatives and friends.
- Nannies, maternity and night nurses.
- Au pairs and mother's helps.
Some pros and cons of Out of Home and In Home childcare are outlined in the tables below. They are extracted from the book How to Find the Childcare Your Child will Love which is available from Amazon.co.uk.
Out-of-Home Childcare Pros and Cons:
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Peace of mind that the childcare setting is Ofsted regulated and regularly inspected
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If your child is ill you will have to stay at home or find alternative cover
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Your child will start their education in line with the Early Years Curriculum
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You are likely to still be charged if your child is ill or away on holiday
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Almost 100% reliability, they are guaranteed to be open on the days they say they will. Many will open all year round
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Your child may pick up more colds and bugs, meaning you have to take more time off work
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Your child will be surrounded by children of the same age and can form some very strong friendships
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You are constrained by drop off and pick up times, often with little flexibility
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This can be the most affordable type of childcare
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It can be stressful and worrying leaving a baby in a nursery setting or with a childminder at first
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You can often get financial assistance from the Government or your employer
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There are negative stories in the press about the effects of childcare, particularly nurseries, on children
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Your child will be eligible for 5 free early years funded sessions per week from the age of 3
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It can take time for a child to settle in. This can be a stressful time for both of you
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They will be equipped with lots of new toys and activities which your child will love
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You have less control over their routine, diet and discipline
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Children will be better prepared for school in terms of socializing, learning and a more formal routine
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Staff turnover can be high which may be unsettling for your child
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Your home is your own!
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Staff can be young and inexperienced
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In-Home Childcare Pros and Cons:
“You have such trepidation about someone living in your home, about how it will affect the family, but such desperation because you need the help.”
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Help comes to you or lives-in, ensuring greater flexibility in handover time and hours of cover
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If your childcare can’t make it to work, you are left in the lurch. Alternative arrangements will have to be made, often at short notice
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You are not constrained by nursery or child minder working hours
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You have someone in your home all day (or 24 hours a day) so lose your privacy
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Children remain in their own environment and in their own routine
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It can take more time and effort to find someone you are happy to share your home with
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If agreed upfront, they can help with other duties, e.g. shopping, housework
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You have to manage in home childcare and ensure they are happy and fulfilled in their job
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Your childcarer can provide over- night cover
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It is your responsibility as an employer to ensure all taxes & National Insurance are paid
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Children can attend classes and activities selected by you, whether you are there to take them or not
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Your children may have less opportunity to socialize with other children
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If you work from home you can see your children during the day
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You don’t know what is going on when you are not there
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Your children will have one-to-one attention with the same care giver over time
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If you decide to provide a car with the job there will be the expense of the car, insurance and fuel
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You have greater control over discipline, values and the food your children are given
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If someone is live-in you will forfeit an extra bedroom / or flat and subject your home to additional wear and tear
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Your children are less likely to pick up as many illnesses
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If you have only one child it can be an expensive form of childcare
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You can build up a strong and fulfilling working relationship
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If things go wrong with the working relationship it can be very stressful for all concerned
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